I gave in to my urge and contacted my friend. To my greatest delight and happiness he contacted me right back and not only did he ocntact me he spent the next three days talking to me. Everyday I talk to him , everyday he buzzes me . We have a little bit of reserve now but that might wash away with time.  It took just one mail ...just one small mail and suddenly that unhappy part of my life vanished. My circle was complete again. I don't know if he is still in contact with her but I don't seem to care .....He's back and that is all that matters!
This part of my life I call extreme happiness :)))